What's the essence of true love in a romantic connection? It's more than a feeling; it's a state of being where our affection for someone bounces back as self-love and a celebration of life itself. This profound connection heightens our senses, fills us with happiness, keeps us grounded in the present, and wraps us in profound contentment.
Expecting these intense feelings to remain constant is unrealistic; they fluctuate. However, true love, like the unwavering love for our children, persists through various circumstances. Similarly, love for a partner shouldn't be confined to physical intimacy; it should transcend attraction, sensuality, and companionship, reaching beyond mere needs fulfillment. Moreover, genuine love involves a readiness to serve those we cherish: by giving and serving, we dispel fears, nurture trust, and find solace from anxieties.
If you sense a lack of this profound love, trust, or self-acceptance, it doesn't necessarily mean your love for your partner is lacking. It's likely that something obstructs your path to embracing this encompassing love.
Our flaws are part of our humanity, even amidst true love. What matters is being conscious of our reactions and habits in love. Let's reflect:
What steers me away from love and gratitude, causing distress and anxiety?
Are there specific triggers for this unease, maybe due to neglecting love or self-care?
Is it anxiety, fear, personal negativity, or external influences hindering my ability to freely give and receive love?
At its core, a relationship aims to nurture love, share beauty, and channel the energy love generates. Consequently, this love extends beyond our partners, reaching out to the wider world.
In our childhood, we sought solace in touch, soothing sounds, and the caring gazes of our caregivers. As adults, our desires mirror these longings. We all yearn to feel cherished, secure, find comfort, and savor moments of joy. In our quest for these comforting emotions, it's crucial to reciprocate and offer the same to our life partners, fostering a nurturing and fulfilling bond.